How to Interview Your (APA) Parents and Grandparents

I’ve interviewed hundreds of people during my career as a reporter, a prosecutor, and a lawyer. I’ve interviewed a sitting vice-president of the United States, an Academy Award-winning actress, and many, many criminals. I once got a criminal defendant to confess during a trial, and I helped win two people’s freedom just by asking some questions that no one apparently had asked before.

Most of the time, I prepare for my interviews by doing some advance research and by writing an outline with some questions that I plan to ask and maybe some objects or documents that I want to ask about.

I use those outlines to help get the interview started, but I do not treat them like a script and am not bound by them.

You can record the interviews using Zoom (or voice memos or even some paper). Keep the recordings for your family, but I encourage you to take a few minutes to put some stories into your own words and to share them with your friends (virtually or in real life). Watching live, unedited interviews usually is not as exciting as it seems on TV, and processing the stories this way will help your understanding of the stories and help you reach more people.

Here are some tips to get started as well as some outlines to cover some specific areas. And if you want some help, email me at slee@ourapaheritage.com - I’d love to help interview some of your parents and grandparents with you!

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Tips for Doing an Interview

I’ve interviewed hundreds of people. Here are some tips to help you interview anyone, including your parents and grandparents.

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Logistical Considerations

Interviews go better if you set things up in advance and plan some of the logistics. Here are some tips.

 
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An Introductory Script

Here’s a script that you can use to start the interview. This covers some ground rules that are important to discuss with whomever you are interviewing.

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Objects

One way to interview someone is to use objects that will spark memories and questions. Here are five good examples of such objects.

 
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Family

Before your parent was your parent, they were someone’s child and grandchild. Use this outline to find out more about your parent’s or grandparent’s family.

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Childhood

Before your parent was your parent, they were a child. Use this outline to find out more about their life a generation ago.

 
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School

Questions about high school and college. These were important parts of your life, and they were important parts of theirs.

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Immigration

Most Asian Americans are immigrants or the children or grandchildren of immigrants. Leaving their home country was a big choice - use this outline to find out more about that.

 
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Adult Life

Questions about work, marriage, parenthood, religion and politics.

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The United States

Some general questions about life in America, such as: “How do you think your life would have been different if you had not come to the United States?”